I am here for you as an emotional crutch.
I am here for you as a listener.
I am here for you as a shoulder to cry on.
I am here for you as a friend.
I am here for you as a hand to hold.
I am here for you as a pick me up.
I am here for you as a cure for your pain.
I am here for you as a light in the dark.
I am here for you as a partner.
I am here for you always and forever.
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A smile can make a big difference.
The past year has been such a difficult, life changing time for people all over the world. Every day we hear of how many deaths there has been from Coronavirus and restrictions getting tighter or a family business you have known for years has gone into liquidation. There is no surprise so many people are feeling anxious or depressed. I understand how it feels and I fight my inner demons everyday with the inner strength and belief I eventually found when I needed it most. Throughout this very challenging time of the pandemic, I have had time to think and reflect on my life experience, good and bad. Watching the news and seeing elderly people on their own feeling lonely and struggling to get their essential shopping, I decided to help in any way I can. There is a lady who lives opposite me called Ethel aged Ninety-Seven, registered blind and living on her own. Every week I drop off some milk, bread or whatever is needed and while keeping my distance; wearing a face mask, I have a chat with her. It is amazing how up to date she is with current affairs, has a brilliant sense of humour and not old fashioned as you might expect with a lady of Ninety-Seven. I admit I stereotyped her at first and feel ashamed of myself for doing so. When I turn up for our chat every week and drop off her shopping, you can just see her face light up. It is almost like a big weight has been visibly taken off her shoulders and she can stop worrying and relax. Ethel is always ever so grateful for what I do, calling me a 'saint' and trying to force money onto me, which I never accept, we end up jokingly arguing about it and end up laughing like drunken fools. I look forward to seeing Ethel every week and make sure she has my phone number to chat whenever she wants. I always phone to check with her if she needs anything else as she won't say because she feels like a burden and every time, I tell her 'don't be silly'. I have a friendship for life with Ethel and will always be there for her. It just proves that what you might originally think of somebody who seems tough and unapproachable is a friendly person who needs support or just some company. For me it is so rewarding to see the smile on peoples' faces and the positive change you are making by helping them. I have elderly Grandparents aged Eighty-Nine and Ninety-Two who I also get shopping for and safely visit them for a chat. My Granddad has become more confused recently with places closed and changes to his routine of walking to the Bookies every morning or his club in the evenings. My Grandmother always says that my Granddad seems more upbeat and chatty when I am there, so this makes my Grandmother happy too. They both still live together in a Bungalow, so she notices more often how confused he is getting. I make sure I see them as much as possible if it is safe to do so with how vulnerable they are. But they are also lucky that they have each other's company and family to support them. While there are lonely, elderly people struggling to get through each day with very little support or no help at all. Even a smile can go a long way to making somebody feel better or starting a conversation. I think something positive has come out of this pandemic as people are starting to notice their vulnerable neighbours or those in need and are helping each other a lot more. Therefore, once we have got through this, I think there will be a bigger community spirit to work together for a better future.
By Sam Hellier5 years ago in Humans
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Picture it: Miami, 1985. Four middle-aged actresses agree to play the characters of Blanche, Rose, Dorothy, and Sophia who share a home in a TV sitcom called The Golden Girls, unaware at the time of the kind of impact the show would leave on its adoring fans. The show aired until 1992, ending with a one-season spinoff called Golden Palace. The seven years we were graced with The Golden Girls on our television screens made its mark. More than three decades after Susan Harris’ imagination sparked the creation of these iconic characters, fans from around the world still watch reruns of The Golden Girls, spend time discussing the show on social media in Facebook groups like The Golden Girls Fanatics, carry Sophia-inspired handbags and relate to the episodes in their daily lives.
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The park was always quiet on Tuesday mornings. The birds sang in the tall oak trees, and the grass was still wet with the morning dew. In the center of the park, near the small duck pond, stood an old wooden bench. It had been painted a bright, ocean blue many years ago, but the paint was now peeling and faded. Every Tuesday, an elderly man named George would arrive at exactly ten o’clock. George was a man of great character, with a face that looked like a map of a thousand long journeys. He lived in a golden cage of silence since his wife had passed away, but his heart was still a garden of peace.
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