pregnancy
Growing your family, one baby bump at a time. All about the ups and downs of nature's 9 month miracle.
My Life as Momma
This whole blog thing is definitely new to me. I have noticed I find myself questioning what to write about all the time. I question myself about why I wanted to do this in the first place or if I even made the right decision in beginning it. If you haven’t already caught on I question myself a lot… about pretty much everything. I lack confidence in myself in all areas of my life except about being a mom. I have known I was meant to be a mom since I was a very young girl. It’s all I could dream about. Of course, I had other dreams that every little kid has like being a lawyer or a doctor or a famous singer. But, I knew I would be a mom and I would be a damn good one. At least in my opinion.
By Aaren Murphy8 years ago in Families
Being a Young Mum!
I myself was a young mum. I fell pregnant at 17 and gave birth at 18. Now... there are a lot of bad opinions and so-called facts around the subject of being a young mum. Some say that, if you’re not a certain age or over a certain age, then you are more likely to be considered a bad mum!! From my experience, everyone is so quick to judge and add their opinions when it may not have been wanted.
By Charliann Nolan8 years ago in Families
Mums Are the Mansplainers of the Female World…
Before I start a #notallmums revolution (god help us) let me just say that yes, not all mums, but most mums to an extent, whether they mean to or not, just LOVE to 'Mumsplain'. I know that loads of you are reading this right now and you are enraged, you can’t BELIEVE I could say such a thing, but hear me out.
By Samantha Bentley8 years ago in Families
Overcoming Postpartum Mood Disorders Through the Help of Community
In 2014, I found myself unexpectedly pregnant. I struggled with the idea of becoming a mother when all of my dreams were suddenly within my grasp. My husband and I had just quit our 9 to 5 job, moved to a Hawaii, and had begun to manage a gym. Having a kid was not in my cards, and I knew that having a child was going to make a lot of aspirations take a back seat. I suddenly became very aware that I was unprepared for life as a “real” adult. My husband, in an effort to obtain better healthcare, went active duty military and deployed almost immediately. All of a sudden I was pregnant, alone, and feeling the weight of the world on my shoulders. I struggled with health concerns during my pregnancy, and I plummeted into an unspoken (and therefore undiagnosed) darkness. Looking back now, I know this was perinatal depression. I didn’t speak of it, mostly because the fear of being “sad” or labeled frightened me.
By Bree Scurti8 years ago in Families
Becoming a Single Parent
Single parenting is often the result of engaging in unprotected sex in the heat of a moment. For some women, this may be a welcoming life-altering experience although it involves raising a child alone. There are also those women who view this experience as unwelcoming because of the obvious changes and priorities must be reevaluated. I have often heard from my elders that the best way to avoid becoming a single parent is complete abstinence until marriage. Overall, I knew this belief was true because I had attended junior high school and high school with pregnant teenagers, most of whom had boyfriends who had abandoned them once they realized a baby was on the way.
By Nathonia Smith8 years ago in Families
Congratulations It’s a Girl and She Weighs One Pound!
We had just gotten back from vacation and it was the start of a new year. I hadn’t gotten my period in quite a while, but that was nothing out of the ordinary for me. But something was just not quite right, so I went to see my doctor.
By Emily McCardle8 years ago in Families
I Thought Staying Pregnant Was the Easy Part
All I have ever wanted in life is to be a parent. This is a common aspiration of many women, from little girls, teenagers who are just beginning to go through puberty, to young adults. While many girls do go on to have children, some don't, and some unfortunately experience child loss.
By Rebecca Johnston8 years ago in Families
Things No One Told Me About the First Trimester….
We found out I was pregnant on the 16th of May, after enjoying a gorgeous last minute 10 days in Turkey so I could recover from an acute hamstring injury without feeling TOO depressed, I couldn’t help but be slightly confused by the absence of my period.
By Samantha Bentley8 years ago in Families
Blueberry - My Short Journey
My Blueberry and Our Short Journey So as most of you know, I announced that I was pregnant on July 1. We found out on June 27 and had it confirmed on June 29 through bloodwork and urine that we were pregnant. Something that we didn’t think was going to be possible. We were so excited to tell everyone. We even discussed if we should wait to tell everyone in case something happened. But a lot of my research I did said that a lot of women wished they would’ve told at least their family so they had support when something happened. So, I thought it was a wise choice. Facebook world found out because we recorded telling my mom. Now I didn’t come out on Facebook about what I went through this past Wednesday because I didn’t want people to think we were just out for attention, especially after we just announced that we were pregnant three days earlier. So, here’s my story and warning, there are parts of it that are graphic, but these are the things that have stuck with me through this tiny journey with our Blueberry.
By Marleah Tryon8 years ago in Families
