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Things to Do Instead of Cheating on Your Partner
The urge to cheat in a relationship can happen to anyone, whether they're in a healthy relationship or a faulty one. If one of you is cheating or you have the urge to cheat and you're worried your relationship is heading for the rocks, it might be time to rethink the person you're with. However, if you cherish your relationship, there are some things to do instead of cheating on your partner.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
Michael Myers Syndrome
Show of hands--and be honest...you ever wanted to kill somebody just because you'd been going through an extended dry spell without sex? I don't mean this as a tongue-in-cheek sort of query. I mean it as, have you ever felt a sincerely disturbing urge to go nuts on somebody simply out of sexual frustration?
By Matt Cates9 years ago in Filthy
Was Donald Trump Really Using Locker Room Talk?
In the 1960s through to the ‘80s, locker-room talk was a heavy topic through, well, locker-rooms throughout the United States. The UK and other Western societies hadn’t quite adopted the same macho testosterone-fuelled as present in the football changing rooms, allowing the States to spearhead, coin and shape the now-controversial term into what was one of the many stereotypes of the popular subculture of ‘jocks’.
By Word9 years ago in Filthy
Defining Moments in Relationships and How to Deal with Them
Anyone who’s had even short courtships knows there are certain defining moments in relationships that will test the relationship. If you don’t know how to navigate those moments, it may be why you’ve had only short relationships. But it really doesn’t have to be that way if you’ve reached the point that you want a long lasting relationship. Knowing those defining moments in relationships, being able to recognize them and how to deal with them can make all the difference.
By Mackenzie Lu9 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions that Are Better With a Vibrator
Why stick to traditional sex when there are so many sex positions that are better with a vibrator? Who doesn’t look forward to good sex? Sex is usually something we all look forward to, but not all women are able to reach multiple climaxes, and some have trouble pushing over that edge at all, leaving them hot and bothered after a bout of otherwise really good sex with their partner. If you’re looking for that push to get the explosion you need, or if you just want to spice up your sex life and add multiple orgasms simultaneously, you need to try out these sex positions that are better with a vibrator!
By Lenny Legman9 years ago in Filthy
Subtle Signs that Predict Your Relationship
We all worry about our relationships and sometimes you need to rely on subtle signs that predict your relationship. But which signs should you trust? Which signs are good and which are bad? It can be pretty confusing, but we're here to help. These subtle signs that predict your relationship should help you figure out if Mr. or Mrs. Right is really right for you.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
If You Watch Porn, Are You Cheating?
Whilst researching for article ideas, spanning the most far-fetched technological news of the day to sexual tales on tiny message boards, I found one intriguing title, “Is Pornography Adultery?” Normally, I’d skip right past such seemingly-clickbait titles, dismissing it as another extremists attempt at internet viral fame and controversy, but this was different. It was a genuine intrigue, a genuine exploration of the belief that viewing pornography in a relationship, without the consent or knowledge of your partner, constitutes as cheating.
By Word9 years ago in Filthy
Vasectomy is Never Having to Say You’re Sorry
My friend Steve is the bravest man I know. This is his story. I simply helped him put his words to paper. He has been married for 25 years to a wonderful woman, Jane. God bless them both.
By Lenny Legman9 years ago in Filthy
Why Does Spanking Arouse People?
The psychological response to adult spanking activities is the most important element in the sexuality of this act. Much mental pre-conditioning takes place before a person is able to respond in a sexual manner to flagellation.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Sex Tips for a Long Term Relationship
When you're in a long term relationship, keeping sex interesting is a big deal. Nobody wants to have boring sex. Sex is a way to connect with your partner and give one another mutual pleasure. If you aren't bonding in your relationship it will slowly start to deteriorate. Sex is supposed to bring couples together, not tear them apart. Here are some sex tips for a long term relationship.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Benefits of Being Single
One quick reminder of what it feels like to be single on a whim. First off, being single means having to deal with the constant nagging of “I just met someone I think would make a perfect match for you.”
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Tinder Vs Grindr
Are we talking about Tinder or Grindr? The similarities between the two dating and/or hookup apps extend beyond the basic swipe left/right model, and the history of the two is somewhat intertwined. The most obvious feature setting the two apart is the target user base. Grindr has been called “gay Tinder,” alluding to the core distinction: gender preference. Although Tinder gives you the option of setting which gender or genders you are seeking, it seems to be discussed and used primarily by the straight community. Grindr, however, is targeted directly to gay, bi and curious men, making it the clear preferred choice for some.
By Swordelia Corningstone9 years ago in Filthy