fact or fiction

Learn the truth about common myths. Are they fact or fiction? In-depth explanations of the questions everyone asks and few know the answer to.

Yard Lick!
I'm a big fan of Jamaican culture. From the music, the food, the accent/slang, the whole swag of Jamaica has a special place in my heart; always did. I can floss the accent to the point that if I'm talking to someone from Jamaica, they'll insist that I was born in Jamaica. Of course, I say that I'm not then reveal where I'm really from (Panama) which usually gets me this response: "Yuh sound like a real Jamaican though." Growing up around Jamaicans in my old Brooklyn neighborhood, I got to learn a lot about the culture and music, and it didn't take long to figure out that Jamaican music...or, rather, its lyrics...put a big emphasis on how people should live. On any given song, you'll hear things like men's clothes shouldn't be washed with women's clothes, particularly women's underwear. Men can have as many female partners, and their significant others have to forgive them even if they cheat, and, most of all, oral sex a dirty, unforgivable act that no one participates in. This blog post is my way of calling BULLSHIT on that and based on the fact that we live in a day where everyone is breathing, walking and living in their truth I find it hard to believe that certain traditions and ways still exist or are trying to exist. Let's talk about my own experiences and how I discovered that oral sex is a welcomed subject with one particular Jamaican man from my past.
By Kai Storm9 years ago in Filthy
Tug a Lug
There are a few pet peeves I have. Slow Wifi, chewing with your mouth open, MAN BUNS, and men grabbing their crotch in public. In the privacy of their own home, that's one thing, I have a choice as to whether or not I want to be there. In public though, they are forcing me to watch them essentially masturbate. I'll be accused of exaggerating, but we all know deep down that it's true. It's never just a quick readjustment, they are down there groping it like it's a pool cue. It's a miracle that they don't visibly orgasm. Why do guys have to fondle themselves in public?
By Edward Anderson9 years ago in Filthy
Valentine's Day, 2009.
Valentines Day, 2009. "I’m gonna kill you!” She yelled as she ran towards me, the knife in her hand. Her eyes used to be a mesmerizing shade of hazel. Now they seemed almost possessed, infuriated, and dangerously out of control.
By K S9 years ago in Filthy
Pros and Cons of Period Sex
Whether we like it or hate it, period sex is a thing. It's not like women can help having their periods, and it's also not like guys can help being horny. Once in a while, period sex will happen—even among vanilla couples.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
Link Between UTIs and Sex
The other day, I was listening to a woman who was decrying the fact that she always got urinary tract infections whenever she'd have a new sexual partner. Honestly, I've been in her shoes. Many girls have been.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
What's the Word Ladies??
Alright, Ladies, I am in need of an explanation. This is something that will show the guys how we make a choice. Music is a huge thing for me. What a man listens to helps me decide if he is worthy of my time. I'm not super picky but, when a guy rolls up with some tacky rap song playing, I don't even take a second glance.
By Bre Meli9 years ago in Filthy
Major League - The Baseball Player
This story is typical of what would happen occasionally, not often. At the start of things, when I had to determine if I would take on a new client, the communication would be via internet and email. I would always request a picture. I felt like, if I'm all out there, then you're also going to have to be brave enough to be out there. It displays some trust. I have never met any other providers or had the luxury of discussing this approach with any other women in the business. However, I knew that it was not a standard request. But, for me it was a rule there was no getting around.
By Amelie Peyton Cash9 years ago in Filthy
Far-Reaching Health Benefits of Sex
Sex is a word bantered about in the media, conjuring a host of diverse images, however, seldom is this basic human act’s role in health and wellness discussed. Not so in Germany where researchers recently published the results of an extensive 10-year study that indicated that women and men who have sex on a frequent basis tend to be happier, more vivacious and slimmer than those persons who don’t have an active sex life.
By Marlene Affeld9 years ago in Filthy
Does Contraception Affect Your Sex Drive?
One of the strangest complaints that you'll see on online forums comes from women who start going on the Pill, only to realize that they no longer are interested in sex. For many of us, it may seem foreign.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
Escorts Reveal What It's Like To Be a Vegas Sex Worker
Las Vegas has a very solid reputation as one of the most insane cities. In Las Vegas sex work is still illegal - however, state laws allowed it to be legalized in most other parts of Nevada. Since then, many parts of the state have become known for their prostitution, porn, and strippers.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
Things Most People Don't Understand About Sex
Sex is a complicated matter, and it's a major aspect of the human condition. We were born to have sex, but despite having it be part of our instinctual wiring, many of us really don't understand much about sex. Or, rather, we may have been misinformed, misled, or otherwise mis-educated about it.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart9 years ago in Filthy
Why Do Women Moan During Sex?
If there's one thing that most people know, it's that women are a lot louder than men in bed. They moan, they scream, they may end up talking dirty to their partners...and it's undoubtedly hot to hear.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy