pregnancy
Growing your family, one baby bump at a time. All about the ups and downs of nature's 9 month miracle.
C-section Stories
I have never had major surgery in my entire life. I was the most excited when I found out I was pregnant. I had a dream that someone had told me I was pregnant, and said, "Go take a test. You are pregnant." I was in denial because we had been trying for a while, but no luck. I was previously on the depo shot, which I hated. Anywho, I woke from the dream and took a test. It came up positive! I was so excited, nervous, and scared my husband would be upset. But he was just as excited.
By Megan Godbey4 years ago in Families
Alone
My life hasn’t been so easy. I’ve always felt alone since I was old enough to understand this wild world. My thoughts and feelings never could be heard even by my closest family and friends. I just couldn’t wait till the day I finally had a family of my own to be happy and not feel so alone. I thought every day about the man I’d have children with. Was he going to be tall, Handsome, so sweet and understanding of me? All the fairy tales that ended with the Prince Charming, I just knew my charming was waiting. Then I finally met that man and it was amazing in the beginning. He would buy me flowers, call me these sweet little names. We was unseperable just like two young lovers are. He really was my prince. As the days went on and turned into years I realized the man I had fallen so deep in love with, started becoming controlling over me. What I wore, who I got to hangout with and even if I didn’t eat all my food, he would yell at me. I couldn’t believe it was really him. He had drawed me into his charming eyes and angelic ways. I had no clue who this man was anymore. I still loved him though. Why id ask myself everyday. How can I love a man who has shown how devious he is towards the women he loves. So he says he loves me. Great, I keep believing him. What a mistake all the little promises he never seemed to keep. So many nights on hours arguing towards each other. I felt like I was a prisoner in my own home. I just was ready to leave because I knew it wasn’t my love that I believe is meant for me. Then one Thursday morning I found out some news that would change everything. I was pregnant. I was happy and excited I couldn’t believe I was having a child! So many emotions ran through me that morning. I had to realize I was going to be a mother and had to protect and care for this little human. At the same time I was scared that I couldn’t be alone again especially with my child. So I decided to stay with this man hoping he would change and be the man not only me but our child needs. Doctor appointments came and he seemed excited, like he had finally seen my pain and realized how much he kept hurting me. We was great for awhile then he became even worse towards me. I never asked for anything from him because I knew the outcome. I was pregnant and done everything myself. My family adores this man and was happy I found a great husband and father to our child. They never got to witness how he was behind closed doors. He started becoming physical. That really hurt me to see the look in his eyes while causing me pain. It wasnt the man I knew once. I was pregnant I wanted love and to be cared for. I was dealing with such a life changing experience. I didn’t want to feel alone. As the time got closer I didn’t feel alone anymore I knew I was. Being a mother has been the hardest road in life but also the most magical and loving road. A love I never felt. I believe I was given our son so I could be loved and not feel so alone. My days are filled with laughter and joy now. When they was once filled with pain and sadness. The father to my son never showed any concern about my issues. I’ve dealt with post partum all alone. He was never there to hold me during the bad days. I felt as I couldn’t tell him anything. From being up all night after my cesarean and moving every where. I had no help. I still done what a mother would do. I’ve pushed through my pain before. It was all for my son. Still to this day I do it all by myself and feel alone. Every mother who has dealt with a partner who was like mine and experienced the pain. I understand, you are not alone during this chapter in life. You are brave and strong. Keep enjoying your moments with your child. Don’t let the feeling of being alone cloud those memories you’ll make. Motherhood is a struggle even when your partner is the greatest. Therefore love like there’s no tomorrow and be happy. This is my struggle. My chapter is just beginning.
By Ashlie Drake4 years ago in Families
My Beautiful Baby Shower
On July 9, I turned 24 years old. Naturally, I wanted to look beautiful on my special day, so I got a manicure and pedicure and got my hair done. I was also excited to wear my new maternity dress. My boyfriend picked me up and drove me to what I believe would be a small birthday surprise. When we arrived, a lot of guests greeted me. My dad had planned a surprise baby shower for my birthday. I was beyond happy, and I loved it so much.
By Diani Alvarenga4 years ago in Families
The day my life changed forever…
January 13th, 2020, my life completely drastically changed. I had only left my room to head towards the bathroom when a family friend looked at me, and had told me I looked like I was getting fat. I chuckled, and put my head down, so she couldn’t see my pain. I’ve lost a lot of weight since high school, and felt great about myself, u til this comment. She then looked at me, handed me a couple of dollars, & told me to make my way to the store to buy a pregnancy test. I quickly took the change, and headed out the door to the local Dollar Tree. As I arrived home, I headed for the bathroom for what felt like eternity trying my hardest to go, so I could test. When the moment came, I then laid the test face down on the counter.
By LaCinda Burnside4 years ago in Families
Recovery of anemia in pregnancy
It's Sunday and a good friend of the "mom-to-be" called to inquire about our daughter, little Dawnxi, and to ask about Doris' anemia during her pregnancy and her recovery afterward. We have summarized this aspect of Doris' pregnancy with little Dawnxi in the hope that it will help our pregnant friend. When Doris was about 16 weeks pregnant, she felt dizzy and her legs were very tired one day when she was getting ready to stand up after taking a shower. Daniel helped Doris up and laid down on the couch for a long time. At first, we thought it was a normal pregnancy symptom, so we didn't care. Then, Doris got up several days in a row and got dizzy in the morning and was not feeling well. A week later, we went for a prenatal checkup. After we told the doctor about the situation, the doctor said that Doris should be anemic, so Doris had a routine blood test.
By Dawnxisoul393art4 years ago in Families
How Does Surrogacy Work? 5 Things to Know
How does surrogacy work? This is an incredibly important question if you’re considering becoming a surrogate. How long does the entire process take? How much does surrogacy cost? What can I expect? You may have a lot of questions when you’re trying to figure out how surrogacy works, and it’s important to do your research to ensure you’re ready for this journey. We’re here to give you insight into what to know about surrogacy and how to successfully prepare.
By Aaron Smith4 years ago in Families
The Joy of Healing Lactational Adenitis during Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding is a very important and happy thing to do. However, there are some difficulties that can only be deeply appreciated after we have experienced them ourselves. Despite all the precautions we took, we encountered many difficulties while breastfeeding. And it was a grim time, with Covid-19 ravaging the world and many services in the community at a semi-stagnant state. There was a time when we were in pain and helplessness, unable to see where the hope for Doris's recovery lay, and more often than not, the two of us had to feel our way forward. Lactation mastitis in Doris occurs between 3 and 4 weeks after delivery. Doris's early mastitis treatment focused on the unobstructed flow of milk. The main treatment was to soothe the liver, clear away heat, dredge milk and reduce swelling. The massage method of lactation was to massage from the base of the breast with both hands, slowly squeezing and advancing towards the nipples, with a degree of force that Doris could tolerate. We gently tugged on the nipple several times while massaging to widen the milk complex at the front of the breast, a method that promotes the smooth discharge of milk.
By Dawnxisoul393art4 years ago in Families
